A Little Bit About Me
For the impatient:
1) I was born with a condition known as Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita. 2) Race or ethnicity is not an issue for me or my family. 3) I can speak English, Pashto, Urdu, and Sarcasm. 4) Your marital status does not bother me unless you are already married 🙄.
For the patient - a brief overview:
I am a healthcare professional born with a rare condition known as Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita. I have had genetic testing, and the results conclude that there is a 98% chance that my situation is non-hereditary. This means there is a minimal likelihood of having children who would be born with the same condition; however, Allah knows best.
Furthermore, I come from a family that taught me the importance of respect, especially for women. Therefore, I hope I am given the same consideration when communicating with people on this site. Ideally, I would like to get married soon. However, I appreciate that marriage cannot be rushed.
Hobbies include eating, sleeping, Netflix, and other human-like things, such as going out and breaking the law by driving in the middle lane when all other lanes are empty 😋
Complete personal statement upon reflection:
Fatter than the average; smarter than the average. Honest, loyal, reliable, and quirkier than the average. Basically, nothing like the average.
Healthcare professional by day, family and friends connoisseur by night.
I know when to be serious and know when to laugh.
I am easily pleased with a three 'meals-a-day' regime. I am low on maintenance and upkeep. House trained to a good standard but sometimes can come across as perceptually messy - a claim that I refute.
I can talk a lot, yet I am known for my silence.
With age came wisdom; with wisdom came cynicism.
I believe to be original but tend to forget that probability dictates otherwise.
I never have my guard up, which can give rise to being misunderstood and/or exploited:
Some say that my transparently trusting personality can be a weakness, especially when humankind is overrun by (un)conscious censorship and indoctrination of the masses to mistrust in abundance. Yet, I remain a nonconformist.
I am a free spirit, bound not by preconceived biases. Instead, a glass half empty, yet still half full.
I can be a friend, a follower, and a leader all in one. One that believes in Honesty, generosity, integrity, and humility with a pinch of modesty.
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What I Am Looking For
I have no spousal prerequisites. However, I do have a few preferences. Therefore, although I am willing to compromise on specific traits, I would ideally prefer to marry someone who is, or can be:
- Honest, as life is too short for dishonesty/deception.
- Understanding, although I appreciate this, can be perceptual/subjective.
- Family orientated, someone that likes cohesion rather than incoherence.
- Willing to adapt and grow; after all, marrying someone you don't know well will come with challenges.
- Open-minded: to evolve in life, you need to be open to change, learn new things, and not be stuck in the past.
- Strong mentally and emotionally to rationalise that it is not a disability that defines a person.
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